The reason men will do this is because they want you to crave their approval.Once you crave their approval, they know that there is a good chance that you will want to get with them. They don’t like to get involved in these sort of games because they can bring long-term problems to the relationship.Even if you don’t feel the need for them to help you out, they will still make the offer.Gentlemen are often just willing to take that extra step to be courteous and respectful.Also, a gentleman is willing to put the work in to win you over, as opposed to try to manipulate you through your insecurities.
They can do this by being better at whatever it is they do or by making up for some insecurity by using humor, wit or a display of their talents.He will simply accept that he has made an error, and he will quickly look to resolve the situation. Being able to communicate efficiently is a sign of maturity.A man who can let his guard down, and tell you how he is feeling or what’s bothering him is a man who is showing you that he is man enough.#1 He doesn’t actively try to make you feel insecure.Many guys will put you down during the course of a conversation. They can use back handed compliments, sarcasm, “accidental” pointing out of your insecurities, etc.